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Weekly Reflections from Rev'd Stephen Bennett- September 2026

Reflection One  6th September  2026

Creation in Christ

John 1:1–14

Have you ever watched the BBC programme Fake or Fortune? The whole programme turns on one question: Who made it? A painting that seems ordinary can suddenly become priceless when experts discover it is the work of a great master. The painting hasn't changed, but knowing the artist changes everything.

John begins his Gospel by asking us to look at the world in exactly the same way.

"In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God."

Before John tells us about the birth of Jesus, he takes us back to the beginning of creation and reveals that Christ is the eternal Word through whom all things came into being.

The prophet Isaiah captures the greatness of this Creator when he asks:  "Who has measured the waters in the hollow of his hand... who has weighed the mountains on the scales?" (Isaiah 40:12)

Only God knows every grain of dust, every mountain peak, every hidden depth of the sea. Yet John makes the astonishing claim that this same Creator "became flesh and made his dwelling among us."

The One who measured the oceans became a child carried in his mother's arms.  The One who weighed the mountains walked the hills of Galilee.  The One who called light into being became the Light of the World.

As C. S. Lewis wrote:

"The Son of God became a man to enable men to become sons of God."

That is the heart of today's Gospel. The Creator stepped into his own creation, not simply to admire it but to redeem it. In Jesus, God entered our world to restore what sin has broken and to draw us into the life of his new creation.

This reminds us that creation is not something to exploit but a gift to cherish. Every tree, every bird, every flower and every person bears witness to the generosity of God. Caring for creation is therefore more than an environmental concern; it is an act of worship. We honour the Creator by caring for what he has made.

Yet John's Gospel takes us even further. Christ came not only to renew the world but to renew us.

"To all who received him... he gave power to become children of God."

As we celebrate this Creation in Christ Festival, may we see the world with fresh eyes. Let every sunrise, every ancient tree and every breath of fresh air remind us of the One through whom all things were made. And may we rejoice that the Creator became one of us, so that through him we might become part of God's new creation and reflect his glory in the world.

Let us pray.

Loving heavenly Father, We thank you for the beauty and wonder of your creation: for the skies above us, the earth beneath our feet, the forests, fields and seas, and for every living thing that proclaims your glory.

Teach us, as Jean-Pierre de Caussade reminds us, to recognise that every moment is filled with your presence and every part of your creation can draw us closer to you. Open our eyes to see the sacred gift of your love in the ordinary things of each day.

Forgive us for the times when we have failed to care for your world, or forgotten that it is your precious gift entrusted to our care.

Renew our hearts by your Holy Spirit, that we may be faithful stewards of your creation, living with gratitude, generosity and hope.

Open our eyes to see your hand at work in the world around us and help us to reflect your light and love in all that we do, until the day when all creation is made new in your eternal kingdom.

Through Jesus Christ, the Word made flesh, through whom all things were made and in whom all things are being made new.

Amen.

Reflection Two 13th September 2026

Transformation from the Inside Out

"The glory of God is a human being fully alive." St Irenaeus

Those words capture something of the heart of St Paul's message in 2 Corinthians 3. God's desire has never simply been that people keep a set of rules, but that they become fully alive in Him. The Christian faith is not merely about changing our behaviour; it is about God changing our hearts.

In this chapter, Paul contrasts the Old Covenant, written on tablets of stone, with the New Covenant, written by the Holy Spirit on human hearts. The Law was holy and good because it revealed God's character and exposed humanity's sin. Yet it could not remove guilt or transform the human heart. It could point to the problem, but it could not provide the cure.

The New Covenant, established through Jesus Christ, does not abolish God's holiness; rather, it fulfils it. In Christ, God's holy demands are met, His justice is satisfied, and His mercy is poured out. Through His death and resurrection, we are set free not only from condemnation, but also from the slavery of sin. As Paul writes elsewhere, "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1).

This freedom is not permission to live however we please. It is the freedom to become the people God created us to be. The Holy Spirit begins a lifelong work within us, gently shaping our thoughts, our desires, our words and our actions. As we behold Christ, Paul says, we "are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory" (2 Corinthians 3:18). This is transformation from the inside out.

That is an important message for our own time. We live in a culture that often focuses on appearances, image and outward success. We are encouraged to improve ourselves through self-help, achievement or reinvention. Yet beneath the surface many still struggle with anxiety, guilt, loneliness and a longing for purpose. The gospel offers something far deeper than self-improvement. It offers new creation. God does not simply polish the old life; He gives us a new heart and a new beginning.

How then should we respond? We begin by turning our gaze continually towards Christ. We allow His Word to dwell within us, remain open to the Holy Spirit's work, confess our sins honestly, and trust that God is patiently completing the work He has begun in us. Real transformation rarely happens overnight, but it does happen as we walk faithfully with Him day by day.

The words of Charles Wesley beautifully express this prayer for transformation:

"Finish then thy new creation;
Pure and spotless let us be;
Let us see thy great salvation,
Perfectly restored in thee;
Changed from glory into glory,
Till in heaven we take our place,
Till we cast our crowns before thee,
Lost in wonder, love, and praise."

May we rejoice that in Christ we are no longer condemned, no longer enslaved to sin, but are being transformed by the Holy Spirit into the likeness of Jesus, until the day we see Him face to face.

Let us pray

Loving Father,  We thank You for the gift of the New Covenant, fulfilled in Your Son, Jesus Christ. Thank You that in Him we are no longer condemned, no longer slaves to sin, but are made new by the power of Your Holy Spirit.

Write Your love more deeply upon our hearts. Transform us from the inside out, so that our thoughts, our words, and our actions may reflect the likeness of Christ. Where we are fearful, give us courage; where we are weary, renew our strength; where we have fallen, lift us up by Your grace.

Help us each day to behold the glory of Christ and to trust that You are continuing Your good work within us, changing us from glory into glory.

May our lives bear witness to Your transforming love, so that others may see Christ in us and be drawn to the hope of the gospel.

We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord.  Amen.

 

 

 

Reflection Three – 20th September 2026

What Does It Mean to Worship God in Spirit and in Truth?

Brother Lawrence asks a simple yet profound question: "How is it required of us to worship God?" His answer echoes the words of Jesus to the Samaritan woman: "God is Spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth" (John 4:24).

It is easy to think of worship as something we do for an hour on Sunday.  We gather, sing hymns, pray, listen to Scripture, and receive the Sacrament.  These are beautiful and essential expressions of worship, but they are not the whole of it. Worship is far deeper than words spoken or songs sung. It is the offering of our whole lives to God.

To worship in spirit is to offer God our hearts. It is an inward disposition before it becomes an outward action.  It is the quiet surrender of our will to his, the daily choice to place Christ at the centre of our thoughts, decisions, relationships, and desires.  Worship in spirit means allowing the Holy Spirit to shape us from within, so that our lives become a reflection of Christ's love.

To worship in truth is to come before God honestly. It means putting aside pretence and allowing ourselves to be known completely by the One who already knows us. Worship in truth is not about appearing holy; it is about becoming holy through God's grace. It is living with integrity, where what we profess with our lips is confirmed by the way we live.

Brother Lawrence discovered this in the ordinary routines of a monastery kitchen. Washing pots became as sacred as kneeling in the chapel because every task was done in love for God. His life reminds us that worship is not confined to sacred places but fills every moment offered to God.

True worship therefore touches every part of our lives. We worship with our time by making room for God each day. We worship with our finances by recognising that all we possess is entrusted to us by him. We worship through our work, our conversations, our acts of kindness, our forgiveness, and our generosity. Every decision can become an act of praise when it is offered to God.

 

 

Indeed, worship is as natural as breathing. Every breath is a gift from our Creator, and every breath can become an expression of gratitude. St Paul writes, "Present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship" (Romans 12:1). Notice that he does not ask us merely to offer our voices but our very selves.

Perhaps this is the deepest meaning of worship. It is not something we simply attend; it is someone we become. As we learn to live consciously in God's presence, every ordinary moment becomes holy. Our lives themselves become a continual hymn of praise. Then worship is no longer confined to church walls, but is found in the rhythm of our breathing, the faithfulness of our service, and the quiet surrender of our hearts to the God who first gave us life.

 

Let us pray

Loving Father, teach us what it truly means to worship you in spirit and in truth. Save us from offering you only our words while withholding our hearts. Fill us with your Holy Spirit, that every thought, every action, every conversation, and every breath may become an offering of praise.

Help us to recognise your presence not only in the beauty of our worship, but also in the ordinary moments of each day. May our work, our service, our generosity, and our love for others reflect the love you have first shown to us in Christ.

Take our lives, Lord, not just our Sundays, but every day; not just our voices, but our whole being, and shape us into living sacrifices, pleasing in your sight.  May all that we are, and all that we do, bring glory to your holy name.

Through Jesus Christ our Lord.  Amen.

 

 

 

 

Reflection Four 27th September 2026

Union of the Soul with God

Inspired by Brother Lawrence, The Practice of the Presence of God, pp. 80–81

 Brother Lawrence speaks of the union of the soul with God as though it were the deepest longing and greatest fulfilment of the Christian life. It is not an experience reserved only for saints or mystics, but a relationship to which every Christian is invited. To live in union with God is to become so aware of his presence that every moment of life is lived with him, through him, and for him. It is the quiet assurance that Christ is never far away, but closer to us than our very breath.

But what does this union really mean? It is not that we lose our identity or somehow become divine. Rather, our whole being is gradually transformed as we surrender ourselves to Christ. Our thoughts, desires, and actions become increasingly aligned with his.  St Teresa of Ávila likened this union to rain falling into a river. Once the rain has entered the flowing water, it is impossible to separate one from the other.  So it is with the soul that is wholly given to God, not absorbed or erased, but living so closely with Christ that his grace flows through every part of life. Such union is not reserved for the mystic alone; it is God's invitation to every believer who seeks him with an open and willing heart.

Have you ever experienced those precious moments when Christ seems astonishingly close? Perhaps in the stillness after receiving Holy Communion, while sitting quietly in prayer, or standing in wonder before the beauty of creation. There are times when words seem unnecessary, when we sense a deep peace that surpasses understanding, and we almost feel the very breath of Christ upon us.  These moments are gifts of grace, reminding us of the intimacy for which we were created.

Yet the deepest union with Christ is not measured by feelings alone. There are many days when prayer feels dry, when God appears silent, and when faith becomes an act of trust rather than emotion. It is precisely in those moments that love matures. Union with God is sustained not by extraordinary experiences but by faithful perseverance, daily surrender, and a heart that continually turns towards him.

Jesus speaks of this intimate relationship when he says, "Abide in me as I abide in you... Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit." (John 15:4–5).

 To abide in Christ is to make our home in him. It means allowing his Word to dwell within us, receiving him in the Sacraments, seeking him faithfully in prayer, and following him in loving obedience. For me, no verse expresses this mystery more deeply than St Paul's words: "I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me." (Galatians 2:20).  Throughout my own journey of faith, this verse has become my anchor.  It reminds me that the Christian life is not about striving to become a better person by my own efforts. It is about the complete surrender, allowing Christ to live his life in and through me. The more I let go of my own will, my fears, and my need to be in control, the more room I give for his grace to shape me.  I have not reached that perfect union, but I know that every step of surrender draws me closer to him.  That, I believe, is the heart of what Brother Lawrence discovered: the greatest joy is simply to belong to Christ so completely that every part of our lives reflects his presence.

St Catherine of Siena understood this mystery when she wrote, "Be who God meant you to be and you will set the world on fire." The closer we grow to Christ, the more we become the people he created us to be. Union with God does not diminish our humanity; it fulfils it. As we surrender ourselves to Christ, his love reshapes our hearts, his peace steadies our souls, and his life shines through our own.

Brother Lawrence reminds us that union with God is not something we achieve by our own strength. It is God's gracious gift, received through humble surrender and nurtured by daily faithfulness.  As we learn to recognise his presence in every ordinary moment, our whole life becomes an act of worship. Little by little, with every fibre of our being, our hearts become warmed and united with his, until we discover that Christ has been closer than we ever imagined, gently drawing us ever more deeply into the mystery of his perfect love.

 

Let us pray

Loving God, draw us ever closer to yourself. Teach us to abide in Christ, to surrender our hearts completely to your will, and to recognise your presence in every moment of our lives.  May your Holy Spirit shape us into the likeness of your Son, so that, with every fibre of our being, we may love you, serve you, and reflect your grace to the world. Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

This is an additional as it follows last week’s one- is it possible to add this on a separate piece of paper to go with week 4?

 

Means of Attaining the Presence of God

Inspired by Brother Lawrence, The Practice of the Presence of God, pp. 85–87

Brother Lawrence’s teaching on attaining the presence of God is both simple and profound. He does not suggest that God’s presence is something we have to create or somehow persuade God to give us. God is already present. The challenge is not to make God present, but to become aware of the presence that is already there. The practice of the presence of God is learning to recognise that we are never alone—that God is with us in every moment, every place, and every circumstance.

But how do we learn this? Brother Lawrence’s answer is simple: practice, practice, practice. Like any relationship, intimacy with God grows through time spent together. We do not become familiar with someone by meeting them once; we grow in friendship through regular conversation, attention, and trust. So it is with God. Through daily prayer, quiet reflection, and turning our hearts towards him again and again, we become more aware of his presence.

Brother Lawrence speaks of the importance of purity of life and faithfulness in practice. This does not mean perfection, for none of us can achieve that. Rather, it means a heart that continually turns back towards God. It means beginning each day by saying, “Lord, be with me in all that I do.” Before we begin our work, answer an email, meet another person, prepare a meal, or make a decision, we pause and remember: God is here.

Often, we live as though God is absent, searching for him in extraordinary experiences, when he is already beside us. The practice of his presence opens our eyes to see that Christ is not only found in moments of worship or prayer, but also at the table with us, walking beside us, and present in the ordinary details of life. It is only as we practise recognising him that we begin to realise: God has been in the room all along.

Jesus promised his disciples:
“And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20)

This is not merely a comforting thought; it is a reality that shapes how we live. When we become conscious of Christ’s presence, our actions change, our words become gentler, and our hearts become more attentive to his guidance.

Thomas Merton beautifully expressed this longing for awareness of God’s presence when he wrote: “The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves.” The same is true of our relationship with God. We must allow God to be God, surrendering our own need for control and opening ourselves to his transforming love.

The practice of God’s presence is therefore not about escaping from the world but discovering God within it. It is a lifelong journey of returning our hearts to him, moment by moment. Through faithful practice, we begin to recognise what was true all along: the God we seek is already here, patiently waiting for us to notice his loving presence.

Let us pray

Loving God, open our eyes to your presence with us today. Teach us to pause, to listen, and to recognise you in the ordinary moments of our lives. May every thought, word, and action become an offering of love to you. Walk with us, guide us, and help us to remember that you are always near, Through Jesus Christ our Lord.  Amen.

 

 

 

 

 

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